Becky had been feeling fitter than ever when she was diagnosed with breast cancer. Although her treatment forced her to slow down, she decided to take on the Pink Ribbon Walk at Bakewell. She told us about herself, her highlights from the day, and how she raised an incredible £1000.
Can you tell us about your breast cancer diagnosis?
Before my breast cancer diagnosis in November 2023, I was loving life, looking healthy and feeling my fittest.
I’d always dreaded a diagnosis, since losing my dear mum to it 30 years ago. She was diagnosed a similar age to me now. It made it even harder to come to terms with as I’d nursed her until the end, and I never wanted my children to experience this.
I’d had no idea I was ill. I was teaching 4 days a week in a great school, and 1 day a week at a university. I also taught zumba and yoga classes in the evening for fun. If it hadn't been for my partner noticing a difference in my breast, I wouldn’t have gone to the doctor to get checked.
I had a clear annual in August 2023, so I thought I was safe for another year. But after an examination, and , I received the devastating news that I had a 10cm in my right breast. The cancer had also spread under my arm pit.
Which treatment did you have?
I had 2 major surgeries within 5 weeks at the start of 2024. I also had 4 months of treatment and 3 weeks of radiotherapy. I’m now on for the next 10 years and I need to take a therapy drug called for the next 2 years.
Is there any advice you’d give to people who are concerned about breast cancer?
I beg you all to check your breasts, every gender. If you notice any change or difference, you should get it checked. Ask if you have dense breast tissue. If you do, a mammogram will give you a false result so make sure to request an ultrasound/MRI. Be bold, assertive and your own best advocate. You could be saving your body and your life.
How do you feel now?
I’m using all my strength to stay positive and see a life beyond this challenging cancer journey. I’m so grateful to my partner and children for caring for me. They’re my world. I’m also grateful to my family, my great friends, and my colleagues.
I can't thank the NHS staff enough. They work tirelessly with such overwhelming compassion. The cancer wellbeing centre at PDH has also supported me and made life more manageable.
Cancer has turned my life upside down but it’s also forced me to slow down. I appreciate every day and everything so much more. I’ve made some incredible friends and I aim to raise as much money as I can, for research, support and awareness.
How did you feel about signing up for the Pink Ribbon Walk?
I’ve always supported Breast Cancer Now because of losing my mum Shirley May to breast cancer more than 30 years ago.
I wanted to get involved in the Pink Ribbon Walk, but I knew I’d be halfway through chemotherapy at the time, and I was unsure if I could manage the whole distance. But in May 2024, I decided to sign up for the 10-mile walk in the Peak District. My partner and daughter came as well, and we wanted to make a weekend of it.
It gave me a goal and something to look forward to. It also encouraged me to get out for walks with my partner, despite the fatigue, achy joints and breathlessness. It was a great distraction and pain relief.
What were some of the highlights from the walk?
There were so many. I think seeing family and friends again was one of them. I cried! Having to isolate away from people and germs had been so difficult. It felt safe to do something together outdoors and it gave me such a lift being part of something so positive.
The Pink Ribbon Walk community was superb. Everyone was so friendly and upbeat. It was lovely seeing everyone smiling, laughing and enjoying doing something for such a brilliant cause. The scenery was stunning, too. I’d never been to the Peak District before and I was in awe. I had to stop several times to admire the scenery, as well as to catch my breath.
I also led a short yoga session at the end of the walk which I loved. It allowed me to share something positive that helped me greatly through cancer. I wanted to help people stretch and relax and encourage a positive mindset.
How did your fundraising go?
In the end, I raised over £1000. I reached out to as many family members and friends as possible, and I shared the walk on social media early on.
I was overwhelmed by people's kindness and generosity, which shows you don’t need to be shy in asking for support or donations. It restores so much faith in humankind.
After the walk, I decided to keep raising funds and turn something negative into a positive. In November 2024, I organised a zumbathon and cake sale and raised £1,200.
What would you say to someone considering signing up for the Pink Ribbon Walk?
Do it! You’ll have so much fun.
If it’s your first time, my advice is to wear layers, as it started chilly but then the sun came out and it was glorious. Make sure to wear grippy trainers or walking boots too. Spread the word early to get others to put it in their diary to join you or help fundraise.
I’d also like to send everyone affected by cancer much love and positive energy. Know that you’re not alone. There’ll be good and bad days, but take one day at a time, be kind to yourself, and live life to the fullest.
Want to get involved?
If you’ve been inspired to take part, visit our Pink Ribbon Walk pages to find out more and sign up.